5 ways to develop a healthier relationship with food
âïžWhile thereâs nothing I love more than a guide or step-by-step outline for how to do something, thereâs no manual for improving your relationship with foodâpartly because it looks completely different for each person. This is a gradual and slow process, but once you get started, I think youâll find your relationship evolving.
Here are some tips and approaches that Iâve found helpful while working with clients over the years.
1.) Learn to listen to your body.
If you listen, the body will tell you when to eat or not eat. And distractions like being on phones or laptops when eating can tune out those signals. To get back in touch, begin to assess what your body is feeling when you sit down to a meal, have a craving, or fix a snack. What itâs telling you may not be aligning with what youâre doing.
2.) Stop labeling foods as âgoodâ or âbad.â
Labeling foods as âgoodâ or âbadâ gives them power over us and causes us to judge ourselves when we eat the so-called "bad" foods. Plus, itâs human nature to want something you donât think you can have, and that leads to cravings. When we use these labels, eating certain less healthy foods can also make you feel shame or guilt, like youâve done something bad. Hereâs the bottom line: Yes, quality varies greatly among food choices, but all foods can be part of a healthy dietđ„
3.) Prepare for stress.
Being mindful when choosing foods and eating requires effort, but itâs something that most can gradually train themselves to do. However, this can be significantly harder or even feel impossible when life gets stressful. Try to be cognizant of the effect that stress has on eating and food choices and plan ahead for those times to help guide food choices (like menu plans or a list of healthier takeout options). Also, make self-care, particularly sleep, a priority. A lack of sleep makes it harder to make healthy choices and listen to the bodyđŽđ
4.) Enjoy your food and plan meals.
PREPARATION IS KEY
Plan meals that include foods you like and include recipes youâre excited to try. Then, sit down, distraction-free, when you eat them and try to fully enjoy the tastes, flavors, colors, and textures. Having a plan for what youâre going to eat is particularly important for busy weeks or any time you might have too many distractions.
5.) Donât punish yourself for foods you ate.
Did you overeat or indulge in something less than healthyâ Many feel they need to then make reparations by significantly cutting back on food or calories, restricting certain foods, or exercising more. Not only is this unhealthy, itâs unnecessary. If youâre prone to feeling like this, try focusing on your diet from a week-long perspective (rather than a 24-hour period).
I hope these tips are helpful for you.
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